Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, but love leaves a memory no one can steal.
It has been 6 months since our sweet Ian went to be at peace. Brian, Becca and I are okay. We have our okay moments, bad moments and horrible moments. There is not a second which goes by when we don't think or miss him. Since grief has no time limit, I would have to say we are all still in the beginning of the grief process. We are all grieving differently, have had our bad or horrible days on different days from each other. We are helping each other to the best of our abilities but relying on our village for help as well.
We try to remember that Ian would want us to be okay and get through this horrible time we are going through. Becca has been going out with friends, a little more than she did before, at least that is the way it feels. Brian and I have been going out as well, working on redefining who we are as individuals as well as a couple.
Grief is an ongoing process and part of our journey that we will continue to work through.