Medical Update
So it has been a while since we have given you a medical update on Ian. He is doing ok. We did just recently have a scare where we thought he had a trach infection. The culture came back growing lots of stuff, all of which were things they were expecting to come back with. Many thoughts and emotions were going through our minds, knowing he may have one and what that could or could not mean.
He is becoming increasing harder to understand, especially at night when he is more fatigued. His eyes have been one of his greatest tools lately in communicating.
Increased pain has been something else we have been struggling with. He has been getting his break through pain medicine more often, sometimes more then once a day. So when his Gilchrist team meets next they will discuss his and most likely increase his methadone.
Eating has been something he has not been doing so much of. We have started a food journal to see what his intake really is knowing that he does not need what you and I would need. Laying in bed and not exerting yourself does not require much but does it require more then he is getting. Once we get the results from the food journal, if he is not getting enough, Brian and I will then have to decide if we are going to just let him continue to eat the way he is or going to start some tube feedings. Both have their pros and cons and this will be yet another difficult decision we will need to face.
Last night, Ian needed to get out some frustrations so he yelled, I HATE THIS DISEASE....we could not agree with him more.
He is becoming increasing harder to understand, especially at night when he is more fatigued. His eyes have been one of his greatest tools lately in communicating.
Increased pain has been something else we have been struggling with. He has been getting his break through pain medicine more often, sometimes more then once a day. So when his Gilchrist team meets next they will discuss his and most likely increase his methadone.
Eating has been something he has not been doing so much of. We have started a food journal to see what his intake really is knowing that he does not need what you and I would need. Laying in bed and not exerting yourself does not require much but does it require more then he is getting. Once we get the results from the food journal, if he is not getting enough, Brian and I will then have to decide if we are going to just let him continue to eat the way he is or going to start some tube feedings. Both have their pros and cons and this will be yet another difficult decision we will need to face.
Last night, Ian needed to get out some frustrations so he yelled, I HATE THIS DISEASE....we could not agree with him more.
Lisa Reid Miller
ReplyDeleteOh no! Marci, my prayers will increase for peace in your house!
Michelle Bar-av
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Erika Agetstein Buchdahl
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Tamara Jayne Flax
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Donna A. Lewis
ReplyDeleteI'm yelling "I hate this disease" for you guys.
Heather Lev
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Janine Frier
ReplyDeleteThinking of you and your family, Marci.
Janine Frier
ReplyDeleteThinking of you and your family, Marci.
Carye George Everett
ReplyDeletePraying for you! I here when ever you need me!
Kelli Maples Bethel
ReplyDeleteWe are all screaming "I hate this disease" with you guys too!! sending prayers and love
Kelli Maples Bethel
ReplyDeleteWe are all screaming "I hate this disease" with you guys too!! sending prayers and love
Stacy Berman Lunenfeld
ReplyDeleteMy heart aches for you! Especially thinking of how supportive you have been for us today!
Kendra Bober
ReplyDeleteSo much love to you all. So much...
Alyssa Postman
ReplyDeleteSending my love to you all!
Alyssa Postman
ReplyDeleteSending my love to you all!
Emily Michelson Levin
ReplyDeleteContinued thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
Lauri Harf Greenberg
ReplyDeleteAlways thinking of you!!! Xoxoxo
Sara Alima Ostrow
ReplyDeleteYou all are in my constant thoughts and prayers.
Sherri Sibel Thomas
ReplyDeleteI hate this disease, for him, too!!!
Sherri Sibel Thomas
ReplyDeleteI hate this disease, for him, too!!!
Lisa McCarville D'Antonio
ReplyDelete(((HUGS))) Love you 'lil
Julie Egleston
ReplyDeleteI know these things must be difficult to share at times but thank you for doing it. I hope by writing it all down it helps. Although I'm sure there are many days and nights when nothing helps!
Hugs!
Stephanie Rabinowitz
ReplyDeleteLove you all xoxo
Steve Lunenfeld
ReplyDeleteI am humbled by your support for others while you have such grace in your care for your family.
Sherie Bober Rubin
ReplyDeleteMy heart aches. Thoughts to you all
Karen Lippy Maimone
ReplyDeleteAll of you are constantly in our prayers. Sending along lots of love for each of you and sharing Ian's hatred of a horrific disease.
Rachel Schreiber Levitan
ReplyDeleteSending hugs. Not very effective, but it's the best I can do.
Harry Blacker
ReplyDeletePrayers and Love to you all!!
Karen Schmidt McClelland
i hate it too.
Laurie Rubin
Continued thoughts and prayers for your little boy and family
Carol Zika
so sweet. He is a real trooper.
Irina Brusilovsky Goldsmith
Hugs
Jamie Nathanson Miller
You go Ian, yell. Hugs.
Michelle Kampler Schwartz
Love
Jennifer Lipchin
Sending hugs and prayers your way.
Mindy Hammerman Lipsey
Thinking of you. I hate this disease too.
Alexandra Kaplan
Thinking of you.
Marlene Ettlin
I'm so sorry that all of you are going through this. Sending hugs and prayers.
Lara Turkel Fruman
ReplyDeleteThinking of Ian and your family, today and everyday:)
Britta Hubbard Hoffman
Thinking about you guys daily !
Alicia Katznelson Broth
We all hate it, too, Ian. Yell it for all of us.
We love you, though.
Sharon Kinstler Selko
You are all so strong and I HATE the disease too. Hugs to everyone
Sandra Huller
love
Debi Gersh Van Camp
Hugs
Traci Kodeck
XOXOX
Eden Stotsky-Himelfarb
Sending hugs and strength your way.
Leslie Malsbury Old
Thanks for sharing. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Faith Feldman
Sending hugs and love!
Dara Schapiro Schnee
Thinking of you all daily. So hard especially on Ian.
Sharyn Rosenberg Stein
you are all in my heart and prayers
Sheri Knauth
Your sharing nature allows people to see your amazing world as mother, wife and person. Thank you. Sending hugs and love.
Janice Orsburn
Love you all
Julie Onnembo
Hugs and prayers.
Lanaye Hoover
Thinking of you!!!
Carole Miller Glick
Sending you lots of hugs. You are so amazing!
Katie Cullen McGoey
I feel like any words I might ever share would be so woefully inadequate, but please know I pray for you all so often, wishing you peace and healing relief for Ian and his health challenges, though I know this stupid disease doesn't allow for that. My heart breaks for what you go through and yet my heart is so warmed by what you share with us. Blessings and love to you and your family. SLAM, as they say. Lots of it.
Brenda Bforsma Hanson
Sorry that you all are going through this all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and especially for Ian. Gentle hugs.
Peter Degen-Portnoy Thinking of you all daily.
Franny Lerner hugs to you all. Feel the love that is going out to you all.
Barbara Pozen Cooper
ReplyDeleteLove you, love Ian, love all the Schers!
So much love to Ian, Becca and all the Scher Family. xoxo
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